A  In A Baltimore, Maryland, December 2,A  8 yr old Monica Ring never showed up at school. The 8 yr old honor student and peer counselor was said to be dropped of by the mother's boyfriend.

Regrettably, you probably know where this is going. Yesterday, police found her body (though as of this publishing it has not been substantiated).

In the days immediately after Marciana's disappearance, police also discovered inconsistencies in the boyfriend's account of the last morning the girl was seen alive.

Marciana's father, Marc "Starks" Ring Sr., told police that he went to his children's home at about 7:30 a.m. on Dec. 3 to take his 3-year-old son Marc Ring Jr. to day-care, according to court records. Ring told police that the boyfriend  told him at that point that Marciana already had left the house to walk to school.

A neighbor, however, told investigators that she saw Marciana leave the apartment at about 8 a.m. and get into a vehicle driven by the boyfriend. Court records show that the boyfriend explained the discrepancy by saying that the girl had started to walk to school but returned home to have her homework signed by an adult.

The boyfriend said he then drove Marciana to school, but court records show that school officials called the girl's mother, Milagro White, during the day to say Marciana never arrived at class.

Two days later, on Dec. 5, White received by mail the scrawled, handwritten ransom note addressed to her children's father.

"To Starks: I want $5,000," the letter said. Riddled with misspellings, it went on: "Put in bag and put I men bathroom at Dru Hill Park by 8 p.m. tonight or the girl dies."

"If she die let just say we even, an eye for an eye," the letter said.

After being arrested on handgun charges Saturday (12-7) the boyfriend was released Sunday (12-8) on bail and is now (as of 12-13) missing and considered armed & dangerous.

Now my mission is not to deliver bad news, but to ask:

How hard is it for single moms to discern between looking for love and trying not to have a bad influence around your child? No one wants to be alone, but you don't want every Tom, Dick, & Harry around your child either. Do you have to become a private eye and investigate ever single man you meet or do you resign yourself to just being alone until they get old enough (whatever that age is). I'm sure Monica's mother will never be the same, please pray for her.

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What is it with men with the all or nothing thing is so immature
you sent me a message saying the same thing but when I do
you have a remark,
I do not mind you sending me anything
I even asked you a few questions
showed it to my friends  but I also did what you did
it cant be ok for one and not for another

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There have been so many times that I felt that the times I went out not looking my best was when I would run into the best looking men. Some times they approach me most times not. I love cosmetics and being girly, the whole  shebang, yet I have learned that the way you look is only part of it, I mean how bad do you look? Does the guy want to rescue you from a bad look day? He may think you are too frumpy to get dates and you'd welcome any attention going your way, Does it matter that you have sweats and a T instead of a tank top with jeans? It should;’t but it does well at least to some. Sexy is not what you wear, its how you feel. I love me! When I get dressed for the day I dress for the occasion and mostly I dress for me. I could care less if  a person thinks I’m sexy or not. My sexiest isn't validated by the other person in my mind; its shared. I love me flaws and all, and any one in my life knows it. I enjoy who and how I am its me. I love me,  When I am approached I appreciate it and give a warm thanks and simply let that be the end of that episode. I don't look or fish for more. I get approached
by men every day all day, even by a lot of the same men I see daily.  I'm my humble opinion I am sexy.
I love myself flaws and all. And I could care less if anyone thought differently. Am I confident? Ya damn right!                                   

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When are you sexiest? Are you sure?

by Redbook, on Fri Apr 17, 2009 10:27am 

In the past two days, two men have approached me, which normally doesn't happen. And the weirdest thing? I looked awful both of those times. Coincidence or is there something there? I think there just might be a lesson! The first time, I'd just finished a 5 mile-is loop around Central Park. I was sweaty, wearing a t-shirt cut at the neck Flashdance style and ugly knee-length shorts, hair in a pony tail. And these two Spanish guys asked me directions, then things began getting a little friendly-flirty. The second time was yesterday afternoon. I was PMSing and stressed out by friend stuff, by family stuff, by work stuff, by life stuff. You know how it is. It was one of those days where things just built and built and built and, after one frustrating moment, I knew I was going to cry. So instead of running into the bathroom, locking myself into the handicapped stall, and just letting it go, I went outside, walked to Starbucks, and, yeah, allowed myself to break down a bit.

Although I have been gifted with the gift of spittles, sweet talk just isnt my thing; I can persuade , reason , convince ,and force things to go my way but I'm raw. I get it said and done. They call me Beauty & da Beast. My daughter gave me that nickmame. Hmmmn... what is she saying?